Showing posts with label how narcissistic parents train their children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how narcissistic parents train their children. Show all posts

Monday, December 16, 2019

Multi-generational Narcissism

How does narcissism get passed down in families? It is a pattern of coping that can be perpetuated for generations unless someone breaks the chain. 

Here is how a narcissistic parent trains their child to meet their needs:

  • When the child is an infant, before they develop any sense of self, confidence in themselves, or a support network, the undermining begins.
  • The child is kept completely dependent on only the narcissistic parent to meet their needs
  • The child is never allowed to feel secure since that would empower them
  • The child's needs are not recognized, nor met promptly
  • The child is constantly reminded that expressing their needs is "selfish" and told that they should be ashamed