Here is how a narcissistic parent trains their child to meet their needs:
- When the child is an infant, before they develop any sense of self, confidence in themselves, or a support network, the undermining begins.
- The child is kept completely dependent on only the narcissistic parent to meet their needs
- The child is never allowed to feel secure since that would empower them
- The child's needs are not recognized, nor met promptly
- The child is constantly reminded that expressing their needs is "selfish" and told that they should be ashamed